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Tantric Sex Technique #1: Eye-Gazing
People need to connect intimately to have great sex. Whether you have been in a relationship for many years and feel like you’ve lost some of that intimacy you once shared or you’re in a new relationship and want to take it to the next level, eye-gazing will allow you to instantly connect heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul.
To practice Eye-Gazing or Soul-Gazing, stand and face your partner. Place your left hand over your lover’s right hand and your right over their left. Begin to breathe in synchrony with one another. On the inhale, slowly and with unconscious movement, allow your hands to gently rise…then descend as you exhale.
Softly gaze into your lover’s left eye, as he or she gazes into yours. In the Celtic tradition, it is said that the left-eye is the gateway to soul, that connect us with our “Anam Kara” or “friend of the soul”. Sometimes, when eye-gazing people may notice their partner’s face changing into that of an older or younger person. Sometimes an animal will appear. Embrace whatever you see, free of any judgment. Send unconditional love, imagining a white or pink light enveloping your lover. Many people believe that the eyes can reveal information about our past-lives. Whatever your beliefs are, enjoy this special time with your parnter as you connect…two souls into one.
You can also practice soul-gazing during sex. The best sex position to practice this tantric technique is in the Yab Yum position. This is a common tantric sex position, where couples face each other, with the woman sitting on the man’s lap. This allows for better movement of sexual energy and connects the chakras between partners.
While many people enjoy the feeling of being connected to their lover, after sex, it’s important to eventually take back your energy cords. In other words, you want to be running your energy and not someone else’s, unless of course you just want to spend the day basking in sensual ecstasy…
I like to keep my heart chakra connected to my lover throughout the day, because we can send each other energy at a distance, but for the most part, if you’re practicing an exercise as intense as soul-gazing, you will feel more like “yourself” if you take back your cords and send your partner’s their own. You can always reconnect at a later time.
So, to conclude the soul-gazing session, whether you practice it before or after sex, close your eyes and place your right hand over your heart, with your left hand on top. Inhale deeply into the stomach, focusing on a spot, 2 inches below the navel. On the exhale, focus on your crown chakra, at the top of your head.
On the fourth exhale, gently open your eyes, look at your partner and notice how the connection has changed. Thank your partner for opening up their heart and soul to you.
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Up until the last decade or so, studies of female sexuality and desire have remained a relatively obscure subject. And with the growing trend of female sexual disorders and dysfunctions, we are in dire need to find out, deep down…What really turns us on?
Heterosexual women…Brace yourselves!
A recent study at the Northwestern University exposed some interesting new info about female sexual arousal. Here’s what they found out:
“While gay men overwhelmingly become sexually aroused by images of men and heterosexual men by images of women, both heterosexual and lesbian women tend to become sexually aroused by both male and female erotica, and thus have a bisexual arousal pattern.”
Here are some of the differences that the researches found between male and female sexual arousal patterns…
Makes you kind of wonder who’s got it right…The BODY or the MIND?
Are you looking for the “perfect” mate? He or she may not be what you expected…
Setting aside all physical appearances, doesn’t it all come down to how you FEEL when you are with that special someone?
In matters of love, we need not only keep an open-heart, but an open-mind as well.
Your thoughts? experiences?
Setting aside all physical appearances, have you ever encountered someone in your life, that when they enter a room… it’s as though time has momentarily stopped and all eyes turn to them? Suddenly, the room appears brighter and people around become much livelier…
For a long time, I wondered why some people exude a stirring animal magnetism that lures you in like a moth to a streetlight, while others vibrate at the level of a slug in a puddle.
One thing I’ve discovered is that it matters not what a person looks like or even what they like. Ultimately, what it comes down to is how I feel when I am around them.
Some believe that you are born with the gift of a natural charisma and appeal. I say, you can harness it by learning to cultivate sexual energy. Sexual energy is one of the most powerful human energies that can be used to increase our vitality and creative energy. Here’s what I mean…
Prior to my initiation into White Tiger Tantra, I was encased in a hard-shell of emotional traumas and pain. When I began to peel away the layers of trapped emotions, like the skins of an onion, through tantric massage and meditation, my energy began to vibrate much higher.
As I continued to peel away at the layers of negativity and began to move closer to the core of my being, the more aligned I became with who I was. Naturally, I began to emanate an energy that made me magnetic to other people. No effort was required on my part as this energy came from within me.
Recommended Book On Cultivating Female Sexual Energy: