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Oct
19

Cutting Cords To Unhealthy Relationships

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I occasionally do a ritual to cut any unhealthy connections that bind me to other people, through what Huna mysticism refers to as the aka cords. These etheric threads of energy, allow us to form close bonds and communicate unconsciously with one another across time and space…

The Cords Of Intimacy
People who are deeply and intimately involved have thicker cords connecting them. It’s why people who’ve been together a really long time, often know unconsciously what the other is thinking or feeling without them saying anything, let alone being in the same location. And over the years, what we come to know as soul mates are people so deeply attached, they become as one soul residing in two bodies or more.

Only people with whom you share a close and loving relationship or those you trust with your heart to care, in offering you only the purest of thoughts and energies are worth staying connected to in my opinion.. But there aren’t so many people with really pure intentions or thoughts, so sometimes it’s best to disconnect, atleast for a little while, while you regain your strength and personal power. Then, there are types who play with those ‘heart strings’ becoming energy vampires and slowly sapping away at your life force.  They are usually just lonely and insatiable souls, looking for someone or something to fill their emptiness. The effect that may have on you, is that you may feel suddenly overwhelmed and exhausted without any physical or emotional cause.

Sometimes you may feel  like your mind is running a mile a minute and fleeting images of people you’ve  come across in your day-to-day interactions or from your past arise.  You can usually pinpoint the draining source, by closing your eyes, entering into a meditative state and observing closely the face or faces of the people that appear. You may discover that you are still carrying the residual energy from an ex-lover or even your own mother.  In which case, disconnecting the cords and a thorough cleansing of your chakras can quickly resolve that.

Thoughts Connect Us
The aka or energy cords connect us to all things in this universe. When you think a thought about someone, you send out one of these cords which is why it’s important to be mindful of the thoughts you think. You could be randomly sending very negative energy to someone, a form of black magick, causing harm unto them unintentionally. People capture the thoughts others communicate unconsciously, because they are like radio transmitters, sending and receiving vibrations all around them . If you’re energy is out of balance, that can be transferred to someone like a virus, which is why I always say you’ve got to clean up your environment before connecting with others. And if you’ve attracted one of those psychic leeches, you may become one to those you connect with by mere association.

I know this may all sound a little crazy. After all, you’ve come across countless number of people in your life, so how can you possibly disconnect from all of them? Well, you don’t necessarily have to, because over time, the cords begin to fade, particularly if it’s someone you haven’t thought about in a really long time or someone you never had a strong connection with to begin with. But then, there were times in your life where you did develop a closeness with someone who may not have had the best of intentions. Maybe they broke your heart or betrayed you and you’re still lugging their energy around. If you think about them and you feel a pain or tension in your body, that’s a pretty sure sign you’ve got cords attached.

The Aura & Cutting Cords
Sometimes when i look at a person’s aura, I can see strings of what looks like spaghetti, cords going left, right, every which way.  And it’s particularly evident around people with one too many sexual exploits, where their aura becomes tainted with what others have left behind. Sexual energy, is the most powerful human force. If misused with hidden motives or to indulge one’s selfish primal nature, it can leave behind a slew of toxic impurities, causing some people’s auras to become darkened and polluted cesspools, as opposed to the energy of a fresh mountain spring. I’m not suggesting by any means that sex is impure, it’s just that we’ve got to become aware of the energy we transfer and that which we capture.

There are different methods to cutting the chords. I will usually send off a blast of energy to whoever I was attached to, filling them with white or blue light of unconditional love and healing, before  I imagine the cord  dissolving. For further instructions on how to disconnect the cords, check out my post healing you is healing me

Another effective tool that helps the disconnection process is to learn to enter into deep trance or meditative states, which naturally amplify the imagination, leading to clearer mental pictures and a more visceral experience.

On a final note, I highly recommend chakra cleansing as a part of a healthy spiritual diet.That way you are sure to be running your own energy and not someone else’s.

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Sep
01

Tantric Soul-Gazing (A Recap)

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In response to the post “Tantra Soul-Gazing: Creating Instant Intimate Connections“,  Anonymous wrote:

“I had an experience soul gazing with a younger man, but it was not intentionally. When he gazed in my eyes and I gazed back, I saw a reflecting light and electricity that made me afraid, so I removed immediately my eye contact with him. Since I haven’t ever experienced it or heard about it, I researched and I found this tantra eye gazing.
I just want to ask, why is it there is a light? what is happening? Did he also see the light when we gazed in each others eyes? just curious. “

-Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

The soul-gazing experience can often take people on a journey that moves them beyond their normal everyday perceptions. What we perceive varies from one individual to the next, so a number of different things can happen. Some participants notice color changes or their partner’s face beings to morph into that of an older or younger individual. People who aren’t normally clairvoyant may begin to open up to greater perceptual abilities. At times, soul-gazing can provide us with valuable information about past or present lives. At other times, it allows us to perceive the colors of the aura, which is manifested as a colorful or colorless sphere of light surrounding the body. This might explain the light that you saw emitted from this young man. Some auras shine brighter than others, which is why we can be immediately attracted to one person, like a moth to a flame or completely repelled by another.

The Celts believed that the eyes are the “windows of the soul” which connects us to our “Anam Cara”, meaning, “friend of the soul.” However, in many cultures it is considered rude to look directly in someone’s eyes, let alone hold a lingering gaze. For now, setting aside cultural influence, what you need to understand is that soul-gazing or eye-gazing establishes a deep energetic connection with another human being, temporarily dissolving our illusion of separateness. It bypasses our intellect and the ego personality, exposing the true nature of our being, which is why some people feel a little bit vulnerable at first. However, once they let go of trying to control the feeling and surrender to the moment,soul-gazing can open you up to experiencing the most loving and profound spiritual connections, that take us far beyond mundane life. It is through this union that we can begin to understand the sacredness and interconnectedness of all things in this universe.

Every soul-gazing experience is individual and shared at the same time. Some people say that what we perceive is just a projection of our own psyche onto another person. Whether it is or isn’t, the question is, was your life enhanced in some way from this experience? You ask if this young man also saw this light…It just depends on whether he wanted to see it.

I hope this has answered your question and thank you for sharing in your experience.

Women Awakened

P.S. To my readers, if you have had similar experiences, please share them too!

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